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10 Year-Old NSW Girl Found Dead by 6 Year-Old Sister After School Bullying Tragedy

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Trigger warning: This story contains content that may be distressing to some.

A tenโ€‘yearโ€‘old girl from New South Wales has had her young life cut heartbreakingly short, found dead by her sixโ€‘yearโ€‘old sister in a moment that will haunt the family forever. Her death, believed to be by suicide, is being linked to relentless bullyingโ€”both at school and onlineโ€”that slowly chipped away at her spirit.

Emergency crews were called to the home on July 9 after the sixโ€‘yearโ€‘old girl told her mum she thought her sister wasnโ€™t breathing in her bedroom.

Panicked and terrified, the mother rushed to the door, only to find it wouldnโ€™t budgeโ€”her daughterโ€™s lifeless body resting against it on the other side. When she finally managed to push it open, she found her little girl unresponsive.

The family desperately performed CPR, clinging to hope as they waited for paramedics to arrive.

She was airlifted to Sydney Childrenโ€™s Hospital, where medics were able to restart her heart. But despite their efforts, the young girl never regained consciousness. She passed away two days later.

The unimaginable pain of that discovery has shattered her family. Her little sister, just a child herself, is now carrying a trauma no sixโ€‘yearโ€‘old should ever have to bear. Her parents are left grappling with a grief so deep, it defies wordsโ€”and with the gutโ€‘wrenching knowledge that their daughter suffered in silence, feeling alone and unheard.

I just can’t begin to understand how this family must be feeling, and our hearts go out to them at this tragic time.

They say the bullying was constant and cruel. And sadly, this isnโ€™t an isolated case. According to NSWโ€™s Bullying No Way campaign, one in four students in Years 4 to 9 experience bullying at least every few weeks. Behind every statistic is a child, and behind every child is a family whose world could be turned upside down in an instant.

Echoes of Charlotteโ€™s Tragic Story

This tragedy weighs heavily against the backdrop of other recent cases. In September 2024, Sydneyโ€™s 12โ€‘yearโ€‘old Charlotte Oโ€™Brien died by suicide after enduring years of torment at her school, Santa Sabina College in Strathfield. Her grieving mother, Kelly, told 7NEWS she had โ€œbeggedโ€ the school to intervene, sending urgent messages as early as August 2022.

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Charlotte O’Brien took her life after relentless school bullying. Source: Supplied

โ€œMy beautiful girl took her own life last night because of the relentless friendship issues she facedโ€ฆ I was scared to label it bullying but thatโ€™s exactly what it was. I begged the school to intervene with these girls and now she is gone forever.โ€

School authorities have since faced scrutiny over their handling of complaints, and former students have described a culture that labelled bullying as โ€œfriendship issuesโ€, treating victims as a disciplinary inconvenience.

Rising Mentalโ€‘Health Issues Among Young Australians

Recent data from the Australian Bureau of Statistics shows nearly 40โ€ฏpercent of Australians aged 16โ€“24 experienced a mentalโ€‘health disorder, such as anxiety, depression or substance use between 2020 and 2022ย  .

Young women were particularly affected, with almost half (45.5โ€ฏpercent) reporting a condition, compared to 32.4โ€ฏpercent of young menย  .

For younger teens (15โ€“19), intentional selfโ€‘harm hospitalisations are alarmingly high at around 308 per 100,000 in 2022โ€“23โ€”the highest of any age groupย  . While completed suicides are rarer among children under 14, numbers remain concerning: in 2023, there were 94 deaths by suicide among those aged 17 and under, mostly in the 15โ€“17 bracketย  .

According to Lifeline, suicide is now the leading cause of death for Australians aged 15โ€“44, an average of nine lives lost each dayย  . In Western Australia, suicides accounted for 36.5โ€ฏpercent of all deaths among 15โ€“24โ€‘yearโ€‘olds in 2023.

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Lifelife says suicide is now the leading cause of death for Australians 15-44. Source: Bigstock

National Impact and Calls to Act

While some schools revise their wellbeing policies, experts say systemic change is still overdue. The death of Charlotte led to federal lobbying for clearer antiโ€‘bullying standards in schools.

Similarly, Dolly Everettโ€”a Northern Territory teenager who died in 2018 after sustained cyberโ€‘bullyingโ€”remains a rallying point. Her parents launched Dollyโ€™s Dream and the annual โ€œDo It for Dolly Dayโ€ to raise awareness and encourage kindness.

More Hidden Stories of Schoolyard Bullying

Beyond these headline cases, lesserโ€‘known tales still highlight the scale of the issue:

  • In Townsville, 12โ€‘yearโ€‘old Adiel Boyd ended her life just after Christmas, citing online and inโ€‘person bullying as contributing factors.
  • In Brisbane, 12โ€‘yearโ€‘old Ella Catleyโ€‘Crawford took her life after being targeted by bullies who catfished her and shared her personal photos online. Just days before her death, Ella posted on a secret TikTok account, โ€œCrying nearly every day, but other people have it worse.โ€
  • And on Mum Central, 14โ€‘yearโ€‘old Adriana, whose suicide followed a school hallway assault that was later shared online, and Michael, a 13โ€‘yearโ€‘old who made a suicide attempt after sustained bullying.

Why It Matters

These stories reveal a familiar pattern: persistent bullyingโ€”both in person and onlineโ€”combined with inadequate school responses and poor mentalโ€‘health support are common threads. For bullied kids, the risk is real: a child who experiences bullying is more likely to suffer depression, anxiety or worse.

Calls for action are growing louder:

  • Schools grasp the need for clearer protocols, more counsellors, and concrete steps to prevent bullying.
  • Legislation like Victoriaโ€™s Crimes Amendment (Bullying) Act 2011 (Brodieโ€™s Law) enables serious bullying to be prosecutedโ€”sending a message that abuse is punishable by law.
  • Support networks such as Dollyโ€™s Dream and Kids Helpline work to help families and children facing cruelty.

What Can Be Done?

Thereโ€™s no single solution, but a united front must include:

  1. Timely school intervention โ€“ taking all complaints seriously without dismissing them as โ€œfriendship issues.โ€
  2. Stronger online safety laws, as seen in Dollyโ€™s Dream advocacy and UK proposals for underโ€‘16 social media bans ๏ฟผ ๏ฟผ.
  3. Enhanced access to mental-health support โ€“ via school counsellors, parents, and helplines.
  4. Community engagement โ€“ empowering children, parents and teachers to work together in preventing, reporting and responding to bullying.

We Can Shape a Safer Future

Bullying isnโ€™t just a schoolyard problem, itโ€™s a mental health issue with real risks. And while rates of distress and self harm among young Australians are increasing, so too is awareness and access to help. With schools, families, communities and governments working together, we can protect our kids.


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Belinda's a passionate advocate for community and connection. As the founder of the Mum Central Network sheโ€™s committed to celebrating the journey that is Australian parenthood. Mum to two cheeky boys, and wife to her superstar husband, they live a busy but crazy lifestyle in Adelaide. Great conversation, close friends and good chocolate are her chosen weapons for daily survival. Oh, and bubbles. Champagne is key.

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  1. If the bullying at school isn’t acted upon when reported by the victim or parents maybe the Police should be notified

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