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This 8-Year-Old Isn’t Shy About Her Feelings On Gender Stereotyped Clothes

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When was the last time that you took a good look at clothes for girls, and clothes for boys? Well, this little girl has taken a major lookโ€”and, she doesnโ€™t like what she sees!

Go into any kidsโ€™ clothing store and youโ€™ll see adorably sweet little outfits. But, theyโ€™re often very gender stereotypical. Hey, itโ€™s been this way since you were young Right? You had a pretty pink tutu skirt, while your big brother had a superhero cape.

Youโ€™re thinking, โ€œWell, havenโ€™t times changed?โ€ Apparently not. This 7-year-old girl went shopping and had a serious issue with the clothes she found. She noted that the girlsโ€™ clothes said things like, โ€œI feel fabulous?โ€ (and that isnโ€™t even making note of the shiny diamond ringโ€”because along with unicorns, rainbows, hearts and perfectly pouty lips, apparently jewels make girls feel fab), โ€œHeyโ€ and โ€œBeautiful.โ€

What did the boysโ€™ shirts say? Um, not, โ€œHandsomeโ€ or โ€œCute.โ€ Instead they read, โ€œDesert adventure awaitsโ€, โ€œThink outside the boxโ€ and โ€œHero!โ€ Really? Yes, really.

When asked what she thought of the shirts, she argues that theyโ€™re unfair. And, rightly so! She says, โ€œEveryone thinks that girls should just be pretty. And boys should just be adventurous!โ€ She goes on to say that she doesnโ€™t understand why girlsโ€™ and boysโ€™ clothes should be separated, โ€œBecause weโ€™re just as good as each other.โ€

These tops go a step beyond the stereotypical blue for boy and pink for girl. As the 8-year-old points out theyโ€™re telling boys to go for their dreams and think big. And what should girls be doing? Perhaps, just being pretty. Or maybe saying, โ€œHey.โ€

We should all take a tip from this 8-year-old and help girls to see that theyโ€™re every bit as adventurous as boys!

 

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Erica Loop is a mum, parenting writer and educator with an MS in child development. Along with writing for websites such as PBS Parents, care.com, Scary Mommy, mom.me, Modern Mom, education.com and others, she also is the creator of a kids' activities and art blog.

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