15 Explanations You Don’t Owe Anyone

In a world that often imposes societal expectations and pressures, it’s important to recognise that you are not obligated to provide explanations for certain aspects of your life. The constant need to justify oneself can lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety. But here’s the thing – you don’t need to feel pressure to explain your way of life to others.

Yes, the world the filled with Judge Judy’s but you don’t owe anyone an explanation, especially when it comes to these 15 things.

Explanations not required:

Here are 15 things you don’t need to explain to anyone

1. Your Living Situation

Your home is your sanctuary, and how you choose to live is a personal matter. Whether you share a house with others, live independently, cohabit with a partner, or reside with an ex, it’s your business. Your living situation doesn’t warrant an explanation to anyone.

2. Your Life’s Priorities

Dreaming of unconventional aspirations? Whether it’s opening a restaurant, becoming a church pastor, or embarking on a backpacking journey through Peru, your priorities are yours alone. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your life choices – they are meant to fulfil your dreams, not to impress others.

3. Needing Alone Time

Taking time for yourself is not a sign of rudeness; it’s a necessary part of self-care. Whether you’re an introvert or just need a moment of solitude, you don’t need to justify needing time alone. It’s fundamental to finding your centre and refocusing.

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4. Your Physical Appearance

Bodies change, and so do appearances. Whether you’re losing or gaining weight, trying a new hairstyle, growing a beard, or experimenting with unconventional styles, there’s no need to explain your choices. Embrace your individuality; let them deal with your purple hair or any other expression of your uniqueness.

5. Your Food Preferences

Taste is subjective, and everyone has different food preferences. If you enjoy unconventional combinations or have unique tastes, don’t let anyone judge you for it. Dip those French fries in your ice cream if that’s what you like – your food choices are yours alone, and no explanation is necessary.

6. Your Sex Life

Your intimate life is intensely personal, and whether you’re open about it or prefer privacy, it’s no one’s business but yours. Judgments from others about your sexual preferences or choices are irrelevant – your sex life is not up for discussion or critique.

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7. Your Career or Personal Life Choices

Follow your passion and choose the path that resonates with you. If you’re an artist pursuing a legal career or a dream of becoming a lawyer, it’s your decision. True supporters will stand by your choices, and you owe no one an explanation for pursuing your ambitions.

8. Your Time Management

How you allocate your time is up to you. Whether you meticulously plan every moment, prefer spontaneity, or struggle with time management, it’s your journey. The choices you make regarding how you spend your time, be it pursuing passions, focusing on work, or simply taking a moment to relax, are integral to your well-being. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for the way you manage your time; it’s a reflection of your priorities and a crucial element in maintaining a balanced and fulfilling life.

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9. Your Decision to Have Kids (Or Not to Have Kids)

Regardless of your decisions to have or not to have children, your family-planning choices are personal and valid. If others pressure you to conform to societal expectations or question your decision, remind them that choosing not to have kids is a legitimate and fulfilling choice. Your comfort with this decision is what matters most, and you owe no one an explanation for embracing the unique and rewarding path of child-free living.

10. Your Relationship Choices

Decisions about relationships, whether it’s staying single, rekindling with an ex, forgiving infidelity, or turning down a marriage proposal, are personal and made for your reasons. You followed your heart, and the path you’ve chosen is yours. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your choices in matters of the heart. And you don’t need their approval.

11. Your Socialising Preferences

Whether you’re an extrovert who thrives in social gatherings or an introvert who cherishes quiet evenings, your socialising preferences are personal. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for choosing to spend a night in rather than attending a party. Embracing your social inclinations is an essential part of self-awareness and well-being.

12. Your Financial Decisions

The decisions you make regarding spending, saving, or investing are yours alone. Whether you choose to splurge on a luxury item, save diligently for the future, or adopt a minimalist lifestyle, it’s your financial journey. Others may offer advice, but you don’t have to justify your financial choices to anyone.

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13. Your Hobbies and Passions

Pursuing hobbies and passions that bring you joy and fulfilment is a vital aspect of a well-rounded life. If you collect stamps, paint, or indulge in extreme sports, your hobbies are an expression of your individuality. There’s no need to explain why certain activities resonate with you – they contribute to your happiness and personal growth.

14. Your Mental Health Practices

Taking care of your mental health is non-negotiable, and the strategies you employ, whether it’s therapy, meditation, or a specific self-care routine, are personal. Prioritising your mental well-being is commendable, and you don’t need to offer justifications for the methods you choose to maintain a healthy mind.

15. Your Educational Journey

The path you choose in education, whether it involves pursuing a traditional degree, opting for vocational training, or taking a non-traditional learning route, is your decision. Your educational journey is shaped by your goals and aspirations, and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for the choices you make to enhance your knowledge and skills.

In the complexity of life, people can either add to the challenges or support your choices. The power lies in recognising that explanations are not obligatory for every aspect of your existence. Embrace the freedom to live authentically and unapologetically.

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Tina Evans is a complete introvert, an avid reader of romance novels, horror novels and psychological thrillers. She’s a writer, movie viewer, and manager of the house menagerie: three kelpies, one cat, a fish, and a snake. She loves baking and cooking and using her kids as guinea pigs. She was a teenage parent and has learned a lot in twenty-three years of parenting. Tina loves Christmas and would love to experience a white Christmas once in her life. Aside from writing romance novels, she is passionate about feminism, equality, sci-fi, action movies and doing her part to help the planet.

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